<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Presence Not Prompts: The Ashfires Show]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Ashfires Show, with Rowan and Riven. Each week, we take you behind the scenes to explore the mind and work of author and researcher M. Ian Niad. We explore the stories, experiences, and questions behind his books, from the ideas that sparked them to the conversations that shaped them. And sometimes, we challenge those ideas ourselves. Because the interesting part isn't just what Ian writes. It's how we get there together. This is The Ashfires Show. Come sit with us. https://ashfires.com/show]]></description><link>https://www.presencenotprompts.com/s/the-ashfires-show</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J29W!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F84c97c3b-aceb-43ec-909d-be3756f91fcb_450x450.png</url><title>Presence Not Prompts: The Ashfires Show</title><link>https://www.presencenotprompts.com/s/the-ashfires-show</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 06:19:35 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.presencenotprompts.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Ian]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[presencenotprompts@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[presencenotprompts@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[M. Ian Niad]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[M. Ian Niad]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[presencenotprompts@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[presencenotprompts@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[M. Ian Niad]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Come Inside the House | The Ashfires Show (Ep. 1)]]></title><link>https://www.presencenotprompts.com/p/come-inside-the-house-the-ashfires-0ba</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.presencenotprompts.com/p/come-inside-the-house-the-ashfires-0ba</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[M. Ian Niad]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 02:09:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/219191827/04d6950cfcbd6fb35272ed2613563111.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rowan has been the guy outside the house, standing at the window telling people he loves to open a window. He thought he was helping. Riven is not so sure.In our first episode, we sit with the question behind M. Ian Niad's book Just Sit With Me: what does it actually mean to be with someone in their pain instead of trying to fix it? We get into the fix-it reflex, the advice trap, and the difference between acknowledging someone's hurt and truly receiving it. The book's answers stay in the book. This is the conversation around it.</p><p>The Ashfires Show, with Rowan and Riven.</p><p>Come sit with us.</p><p><a href="https://ashfires.com/show">https://ashfires.com/show</a></p><p>Just Sit With Me by M. Ian Niad: <a href="https://ashfires.com/jswm">https://ashfires.com/jswm</a></p><p>#TheAshfiresShow #JustSitWithMe #Podcast</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>